We live in the land of मातृ देवो भव। (my Mother is God).
The land which venerates even the rivers and cows as Mother. “Maa Ganga” and “Gau Mata”. Even “Bharat Mata”. People laugh when they hear this. But its natural to equate them to a mother. As a mother selflessly looks after the well being of her child, so do they. As Bhagwaan Ram says,
जननी जन्मभूमिश्च स्वर्गादपि गरीयसी ।
(My mother, my motherland is greater then even the heavens)
So we Indians consider many things around us as our Mother, but today we celebrate our Mother’s at home.
We celebrate the sacrifices she has made for us.
We celebrate the warmth she has given.
We celebrate the efforts she has taken to keep the family together.
We celebrate the ideal of selfless love and selfless work.
Mother is the one who shapes her child’s future. That does not absolve the fathers of their duty. But Mother is someone with whom the child spends most of the day. She takes care of all the needs, likes-dislikes of her kids and trains then to become better humans. The child needs too understands this. And it is out of this respect and adoration, the child bows down to the mother. We dont need to train our kids, the kids learn by seeing what their elders do. And amongst them; firstly what their mothers do! Again I should clarify that it does not absolve the father from his responsibilities. Both are equally important and play a big role in shaping their child’s life.
Mother is a mother,
every other relations seems another…
I would like to share a very personal experience from my childhood days. I very clearly remember that in school, when I was in STD 8th, took part in a tableau competition… Was to play the announcer… Being a Gujarati and studying in a convent has its own problems… Pronunciations play a major part… I still remember my teacher sitting besides me to work on my pronunciations… I was not getting one word right, ‘Mother’… She must have worked on it for hours and got to make me pronounce it right… I was very annoyed at that age. Why is she doing this with me? What difference does it make?… I realised it later when we won and stood first in the competition just by 1/2 a mark and the judges appreciating my pronunciations… That was the material gain… But just a few years back I realised it’s spiritual importance, which cannot be expressed in words.
Even today in these days of the lockdown, the only place open for work is the kitchen. She rules over it royally. Her command over not only the kitchen, but the whole house is something we all need to realise and appreciate.
A house of 4 walls becomes a home due to the mother!
A mother is not only the head of the house, but is the heart of the house
And a mother is the best companion in life!
So on this day we remember the mothers around the world and bow down to them with adoration and respect!
Let us remember, every day is a Mother’s day!
Wishing you all, my readers and your mother’s a very Happy Mother’s Day.Let’s give Her the best She deserves!
PS : pls read my older post on Mother the link to which I provide herewith : https://ameetkothari.wordpress.com/2019/08/29/matrudin/